6/12/09 Kevin Roose – The Unlikely Disciple
I really looked forward to this interview after reading the book, and I wasn’t disappointed. Kevin Roose was a journalism student at liberal Brown University, and took a semester off to attend Jerry Falwell’s Liberty University to write about the Born-Again Christian culture and the “God-Divide”. The idea started when he met some Liberty students and noticed how hard it was to communicate with them – what a different culture they were, right here in the U.S. When he read statistics about just how many young people identify themselves as born-again Christians, he decided it was a worthwhile project to try to build a cross-cultural bridge of understanding. Like many, I wondered if this book was going to be a mockery of Liberty, or a book about cross-cultural dialogue. Kevin wasn’t sure at first exactly how it would turn out, but he knew he wanted to try to keep an open mind and give Liberty a fair shake. It turned out to be a very multi-faceted and honest book of laughable, heart-warming and scary stories, interesting background information, and a personal look at characters worth knowing. This book has the power to soften the hearts of those who wish to bridge their own God-divide with real compassion and understanding for a different way of life and thinking.
I found myself feeling deep resonances with many of the themes in this book, having had a foot in multiple religious paradigms myself. Growing up atheist, I began with a template very similar to that of Kevin’s, as a very secular and non-religious, inactive Quaker. With a very similar motivation to Kevin’s I became fascinated by born-again Christianity almost because it was so different. I grew up laughing at it, but as a teenager I visited churches and felt that there was something going on that was worthy of respect. It wasn’t until I became interested in Vedic Philosophy that I looked over my shoulder at Christianity and saw that there were some very deep universal truths there. At one time I immersed myself in a Born-Again church and school, just to see what would happen, and I did have a “born-again” type of experience with Jesus. Ten years later I still consider myself a Christian, though a very unconventional one.
Kevin’s book brought back fond, funny, and frustrating memories of both my time in the born-again Christian school and my recent experience living immersed with 100% Mormon family and friends in the heart of Mormon country for the past couple of years. Especially just having moved back to Fairfield from Provo, Utah, I really related to Kevin’s description of his “reverse culture-shock” upon re-entry to Brown University. It really does feel like there are two different selves, and it’s not so much that there is anything to hide, or even anything that incompatible about the two selves. It’s just that in a new context, there is no container for so much of who you were. The question of identity becomes interesting when no one is there to acknowledge or receive who you feel yourself to be. You are speaking a foreign language. Ultimately it is a strengthening process, but it is unsettling at first. For me, coming back to Fairfield from Provo was coming home to the delicious comfort of like-minded people. It was a big relief, and yet I still missed my Mormon persona and way of languaging things. It felt odd to no longer have support for the parts of my Mormon persona that I wanted to keep. From talking to Kevin and reading his book, it sounded like this is much the way he felt upon returning to Brown. It was a coming home, a relief, and yet such a different culture, and no support for the things he wanted to keep, like a regular prayer practice. For me, there was a question like, “OK, do I really want to keep these things or was I just under mass hypnosis?” Evangelicals also deal with culture-shock and identity questions when they throw themselves into foreign territory to proselyte. This is an example of how Kevin’s book bridges the God-divide by showing that in a lot of ways, we’re not so different. Whatever your perspective, The Unlikely Disciple packs a lot of insight.
Besides being thought provoking, Kevin’s book was hilarious and witty. It was a very enjoyable read. His website, www.kevinroose.com is really entertaining and a stellar example of up-to-the-minute book marketing strategies. I think this guy has a great writing career ahead of him. He’s already made a great contribution to inter-faith dialogue.