At the age of 13, Cupolo was diagnosed with juvenile rheumatoid arthritis and while this kept her from participating in many things, it did have a great influence on her writing. “So I had, a really, a lot of time alone, a lot of time for introspection and before that I’d been an athlete and had no sense of writer… I mean, my family read books but it wasn’t a literary house, and so I didn’t have anything to do all day so I did start to read a lot… and then I started to go to library more and get more into reading and so what it made me do was to be an observer of people, more than anything else, because I had to sit out… I sat out at a lot of life during my teens and also in my 20’s, although I was lucky enough to travel but I learned to look at people in a different way and I think that’s what illness does…so that really shaped me as a writer and I was able to, kind of, have empathy for other people and see what they were struggling with because everybody is struggling with something.”
When putting together her collection, Cupolo chose pieces based on a range of stories. Initially when she was first signing her book to agents, they described her stories as too different from one another, but it was those differences that ultimately made her book unique to her audience. “There are a lot of women characters and a lot of locations but I kind of liked that. I liked that it was.. I don’t have the same story that I’m trying to tell over and over again.” Additionally, her decision to write short stories over novels came from her preference for those small moments in one’s life that can create a huge impact. “I like vignettes of people in their lives and people taking one direction or another and I’m always fascinated by the choices we make that shape the rest of our lives… I really love the craft of a short story, and novels you can be a little bit more expansive, I guess, and as a writer… they’re very staccato in the delivery… so you get the shape of it very quickly and you get the trouble very quickly because it’s very important to get trouble straightaway in the story.”
Writing’s always been… It’s really like a, for me, a spiritual practice, right? It’s writing my pages in the morning about what I’m really thinking, feeling, what’s on my heart, but then transitioning into a character that I’m thinking about… It’s a real privilege to be a writer, right? You really are lucky to write and spend the time doing it.
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