With so many stories that could have been created around the Six Day War time period, what inspired Bukai to write this particular story? “So, I started this book 10 years ago, and I hadn’t expected that it would come out now at a time where it’s really, really so difficult… So, I’m hoping that the book is an antidote to that, that in a sense, the Romeo and Juliet story is… [about how] people from two different cultures come together… I really feel like this is a story about a marriage, about people keeping secrets from each other, about small betrayals that chip away at trust… and what family means and how outside forces could affect families… and also, I wanted to see what it would be like for a mother who’s desperate to hold on to her marriage, is desperate to save her daughter from what she perceives is this terrible threat because she saw her own sister-in-law die… I also wanted to look at the years 1967 during the Six Day War, which really changed everything on the ground for Israel, and the 1973 War… and so those two wars bookend. The relationships bookend… as well as these wars.”

I don’t think love conquers all. I think compassion and empathy, the people who are supposed to be our enemies but are human like us, conquers all. That is, kind of, what I was trying to get at in the book.”


Exile is more than a geographical concept. You can be an exile in your homeland, in your own house, in a room.”

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