In the conversation, Rouse also discussed why he writes under his grandmother’s pen name, his brother’s death at the age of seventeen, and using humor as a way to cope. He remarked, “I do believe in humor to, really, I think, you can write about serious topics and you can only preach at people and wag your finger so much… humor is a way to really, when you’re talking about things that are very tough to hear or very tough to remember, it’s a way to lift people, kind of, up out of that ditch and provide some levity and some clarity, and so I use it as kind of an after dinner drink… to let people out of how they’re feeling…a lot of the times it’s a way to bring people in, but it’s also a way to keep people at bay sometimes… My mother taught me a great deal about faith and resilience but also about the importance of humor and being able to laugh at yourself, and if you can’t do that, you’re not going to get very far in this world.”

I truly believe that it’s the minute moments in life that matter the most. You know, most of us aren’t going to scale Kilimanjaro or do anything like that. It’s just the tiny little things that unite us that are beautiful and painful and that’s what I like to write about.


Life is like the game. It isn’t just happenstance. You make decisions inning by inning. That decides the outcome.

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